Fatherhood: Male Engagement
Research has shown that it is well known that a father’s household presence is essential for families’ positive well-being.* Dads who actively participate in the lives of their families provide a source of stability and support. Research has also shown that the myth that Black father’s are not active is just that, a myth.
Father’s that are involved are more likely to engage in positive parenting behaviors like academic intervention and constructive discipline. That is why we must identify and address the barriers that keep some of our fathers from being engaged in their child’s education.
I am so proud to see all the African American/Black fathers stepping up to the plate and supporting their child to achieve academic excellence. Today, many of our African American students are lacking confidence, identity, and self-worth. A father’s presence is transformative and can restore a child’s confidence.
Fathers provide structure in every aspect of their child’s life. It is imperative that they be present and engaged in their child’s pursuit of academic excellence. If we train up a child in the way they should go, when they get older, they will remember the training.
This is not easy work. Some fathers struggle and seek resources that will equip them to become advocates for their Kings and Queen’s. I say to all you fathers, never give up because regardless of how difficult the situation is, it is only temporary. It is this tenacity, and the lack of giving up, that makes our Black fathers strong. We need all of our Black adult males to continue playing the positive role in our children’s life.
So, today, I want to encourage all of you to “Hug a Dad.” Below are some resources to support our fathers:
1. Black Fathers Foundation
2. Rubicon
3. Teaching for Black Lives
4. Black Dad Matter
Submitted by Mr. Shumake
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